How do you know it's no longer a crush and you're in love?

Ask yourself the question: whose happiness Is more important to you? His or yours? Would you be able to let him go and wish him well, if he fell in love with somebody else? Would you be happy with him if neither one of you had anything, if both of you were homeless? Would you be villing to give up your life to save his?

It is easy for us sometimes to think that we love somebody else, when what we really want is that somebody else make us happy.

How should I feel when my crush talks about his love which is not me?

You should feel friend-zoned and should wish him luck for all his future endeavours. Don’t forget to say a nice goodbye. Look around. You may find someone better.

What is the difference between having a crush and being in love?

CRUSH: It's when you find someone who is absolutely perfect.

No Second Chance For Love

A wife arrived home after a long shopping trip, and was horrified to find her husband in bed with a young, lovely thing. Just as she was about to storm out of the house, her husband stopped her with these words: "Before you leave, I want you to hear how this all came about. Driving home, I saw this young girl, looking poor and tired, I offered her a ride. She was hungry, so I brought her home and fed her some of the roast you had forgotten about in the refrigerator."

Her shoes were worn out so I gave her a pair of your shoes you didn’t wear because they were out of style.

She was cold so I gave her that new birthday sweater you never wore even once because the color didn’t suit you.

Her slacks were worn out so I gave her a pair of yours that you don’t fit into anymore.

Then as she was about to leave the house, she paused and asked, "Is there anything else that your wife doesn’t use anymore?"

"And so, here we are!"

Simple Mood Changes

Be Happy Now: 6 Simple Mood Changes to Get Happy and Stay Happy.

Are you looking for that extra dash of happiness? Well with the following 6 mood changes you can discover the secrets to letting the sunshine in
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Find the gift in each day: How you start the day is going to determine what kind of a day you will have. Instead of waking up and thinking, I do not want to go to work today, focus on positive things like coming home to your family or a fun lunch you are going to have with a colleague.

Appreciate the little things: Spend at least 10 minutes before bedtime writing down three positive outcomes from the day, along with reasons why those outcomes were successful. It is a human instinct to focus on negativity, but if you want to survive a good outcome focus more on the positive. Your mind is always moving at a rapid pace switching back and forth looking for negative and positive results. Train you mind to focus more on the positive and savor the moment.

Find a Happiness Partner: When you are trying something new in your life, share your achievements with a friend. When you commit yourself to a positive action like walking a mile every morning, try to walk at least two miles and let your friends know. This simple achievement will keep you focus on the positive end of things.

Know your extreme hot-button issues: everyone possesses a few deeply held beliefs that lead to overreaction in response to daily activities. Are you always experience extreme emotions about things that should be not a big deal? You may want to do some research before you overact to see if it is worth dealing with. Overreaction to a simple life issue may at time create a harmful and dreadful mistake. So please evaluate before you react.

Drop everything and get moving: Walk, or meditate. Most of us are at the bottom of our energy lever, always tired, grumpy, and pessimistic by midafternoon. Children are not the only ones that need an afternoon break. Stand up and stretch, do jumping jacks, or even dance. Vigorous movement refreshes your mind and wards off fatigue.

Be a cheer person: When a person shares something good that happened, respond constructively. Be positive, for example if a family member show you something they just bought, respond by saying, “That will look on you”, instead of asking if it was on sale. Always being perceived as a positive person will also improve relationships with you friends and family. People want to be with positive people not negative people. Also, if you are always positive people will like you more because you make them feel good. With that in mind it will make you feel great. k

What are the Seven Secrets to keep you happy throughout your day?

Find the joy each day. How you start your day is going to determine what kind of day you have. Instead of waking up and thinking,” I do not want to go to work today, focus on positive things like coming home to your family for dinner or just having a great lunch with co-workers and friends.

Give your love one a surprised hug. Small acts of love as, a favorite meal, a loving text message, or an unexpected touch, makes us see ourselves as a kind and supportive spouse. At time individual get a lift in self-image even when they do something nice that spouses do not even notice.

Studies indicate that keeping a daily gratitude list reduces anxiety as well as therapy does. When you create your list, be specific by saying, “Thank you for the coffee that was brought to me this morning, but most important, thank you for the tall latte I received from you last night.

Always remember to acknowledge your kindness. When people recognize their spiritual bond to be stronger, whether through deep breathing, admiring the beautiful sunset, or reaching out to someone, they are happier and feel better about themselves.

Be a good friend to yourself. Self-compassionate people have taught themselves technics that help them find comfort and joy. One important key is they are as nice to themselves as they would be to their love one and best friends.

Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get very upset, stressed or offended. But what you are doing when you indulge in these negative emotions is going beyond your self-worth over the happiness you should be enjoying at that time.

Very important as you go about your day know whom to ignore. Remember that a disagreement involving someone who is not important to you as a driver who cut you off in traffic or a rude salesperson, just ignore the incident an go about you way and do not waste your energy. Save the effort for resolving problems with the people you love and cherish.

Life is Here…Life is Good...Do not Miss It!

Are you so busy checking eMails and crossing chores off the list that you have forgotten how to enjoy the little stuff? Your life is passing you by and is happening right now, so ask yourself: Am I truly living the moment? If you are working on the computer and your love one goes off to work, and you say a brief good bye to him or her you are missing quite a lot.

In todays modern life, hurrying, multitasking and not making the connection so constantly that we have become very disconnected in our lives. We have gotten so disconnected that I see people text-messaging during their dinner dates what are they doing setting up another dinner date. We need to slow down and pay attention to what we are experiencing while we are experiencing it.

Life is a series of routines. You eat breakfast play board games take walks and wash dishes at the sink and hurdle through them on autopilot. By concentrating and hurrying through you normal routines you are in danger of missing the whole thing, LIFE. Be Here, Now. If you are passing along through life, its daily tasks and troubles, to get to the next issue, ask yourself what is the next thing.

You need to be there for the daily activities but slow down and enjoy your live. Your Life is happening now! While doing your daily chores and paying attention to them while you do them, it might actually offer you some heart warming pleasure. You may want to go outside tonight and enjoy the stillness of the night air on you skin or the stars above in the sky.

If you want to enjoy Life and feel a sense of joy, quit waiting for something good to happen, seize the moment...This One.